“One of the most notable reactions, for me, to changing our name from ‘HuffPost Gay Voices’ to ‘HuffPost Queer Voices’ has been the number of self-identified gay men who are arguing that they hate the word ‘queer’ because it means ‘different’ or ‘odd’ and they want to be ‘normal’…”
link: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/jamesmichael-nichols/why-i-love-being-queer_b_9159876.html