“Sometimes a couple’s interests don’t totally match up. One of you likes model trains while the other would rather crochet sweaters for the cat; one partner aspires to trek the length of the Appalachian Trail while the other’s idea of an ideal evening involves a large plate of barbecue, a half-ounce of high-quality weed, and a Fast and Furious marathon…”

link: https://www.vice.com/read/how-to-make-sex-and-relationships-work-when-only-one-of-you-is-kinky