“My dom once stopped a scene to make sure I was still breathing.
I wasn’t mad or anything. I was really glad she checked, because if I hadn’t been, it would have confirmed all my mom’s fears about the dodgy, catacomb-ish sex dungeons she thinks I frequent…”
link: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/ja-rock/talking-about-kink-and-co_b_8765446.html