“Americans are probably more educated, informed, and enthusiastic about sex today than we’ve ever been, and yet we can still sometimes feel closed or uncomfortable expressing our sexuality in certain ways. BDSM — a world I stumbled into, learned to understand, and have grown to love — is definitely one of those uncomfortable areas…”

link: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/sandra-lamorgese-phd/turn-bedroom-into-red-room_b_8691676.html